Key tips for black men dating good looking white women

Black men dating good looking white women is hard and dating someone better looking on the proverbial scale can be downright terrifying. Good news black men, this terror is essentially self-imposed and unnecessary! If you are looking for a white woman, check out the 2 key tips for dating a white girl who is better looking than you.

Tips 1: You have to have confidence.

black men dating white womenWhat are your strengths? Are you good at sports? Do you have a great career that you love? Are you a talented writer or musician? The first step in dating good looking white women is to be confident in yourself.

Realize that you are a unique individual that has much to offer another person in a interracial relationship. Look into yourself and see those qualities. Believe in them and nurture them every day. See yourself for who you really are every time you look in the mirror.

Recognize that you also have flaws and be proactive in working on them to better yourself. The more you appreciate your own self-worth, the more it becomes apparent that there literally is no one that is ‘out of your league.’

People often see more of their flaws than anyone else ever could. The excess pounds, stretch marks, errant pimples and big feet that we see every time we look in the mirror are not what everyone else sees. Anyone who is worth your time will not be worried about receding hairlines or love handles.

Granted, you cannot see a person’s personality from across the room most of the time, but it is the personalities of the couple and the way they mesh together that will withstand the test of time – not the six pack abs or perfect hair.

A woman does not wake up with perfectly coiffed hair and beautiful makeup to accentuate that gorgeous smile that attracted you, but the heart behind the smile is still there. That heart is what will see the real you, not what is on the outside.

Tips 2: Do things to make her laugh.

Arguably one of the most beautiful and talented actresses of all, Audrey Hepburn once said, “I love people who make me laugh. I honestly think it’s the thing I like most, to laugh. It cures a multitude of ills. It’s probably the most important thing in a person.”

The ability to bring a smile to one’s face is one of the best attributes that many women (and men!) look for in a partner. Don’t be afraid to show her your fun and crazy side. Be the light that she looks forward to on her bad days. Let the white woman know that you can get her out of her funk on a bad day and you will be gold to her.

Dating someone of a different race and better looking than you can be a challenge, but not necessarily for the two people dating each other. Two people from different backgrounds or cultures coming together to prove to the world that love can rise above all our differences. God made all of us, including the color of our skin. It’s more important to date someone who shares your same beliefs and values, than your skin color. Good luck to all black men who are want to date white women.